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Ant Anstead & Son Hudson

As part ofAnt Anstead’s filing for full custody of his son Hudson London with ex-wifeChristina Hall, he is requesting that the 2-year-old not appear in any paid media campaigns.

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Ant Anstead, Christina Haack

Hall tells PEOPLE exclusively in response to the custody filing, “What Ant is doing deeply saddens me. If this was really about Hudson, as he says, this should have been handled privately with a private judge or mediation, as myself and my attorney have suggested.”

“I have had my share of ups and downs but I am a good mom and I love my children with all my heart and I will always protect them,” she adds.

A rep for Anstead had no comment.

In December 2018, Anstead and theChristina on the Coaststar wed during a surprise ceremony at their home in Newport Beach, California. They welcomed their son Hudson in September 2019, but a year later, Hall announced the pair had split in a statement posted to her Instagram.

“We are grateful for each other and as always, our children will remain our priority,” she said in September 2020.

Hall shares sonBrayden James, 6, and daughterTaylor Reese, 11, withex-husband andFlip or Flopcostar Tarek El Moussa.Anstead is dad to daughter Amelie, 16, and son Archie, 14, from his previous marriage to ex-wife Louise Herbert.

The former pair have both moved on as Hall recently married realtor Josh Hall, 41, after a year of dating, while Anstead has been in a relationship with Renee Zellweger, 53, since last June.

source: people.com