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Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott

Tori Spellingis changing things up amid her uncertain future with husbandDean McDermott.

After McDermott, 56,announced their separation in Junevia a since-deleted Instagram post, multiple reports indicated that theBeverly Hills, 90210star, 50, was staying at a motel withtheir five children.

Speaking about Spelling’s living situation, a source tells PEOPLE, “Tori isn’t staying at a motel. She’s staying with a friend.” While Spelling has yet to publicly address the status of her relationship with McDermott, sources previously told PEOPLE that the couple seemed to be doing well before her husband’s announcement.

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Tori Spelling and Dean Mcdermott

“Their friends have seen their ups and downs through the years, but they really did seem to be in a good place in recent months,” a source close to Spelling told PEOPLE. “Thisfeels really out of the blue.”

Referencing thepast struggles in their relationships, the source continued, “If this had happened a year ago, it would’ve been expected because things were terrible between them. Sure, they still had their disagreements and didn’t always see eye to eye, but the past six months things had felt good between them.”

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Stella Spelling, Tori Spelling, Beau Spelling, Dean McDermott, Finn Spelling, and Hattie Spelling

Another source close to the family also shared with PEOPLE that there seemed to be positive changes in their relationship sincetying the knot in 2006.

The pair previously documented their life as a couple (including a cheating scandal) and as parents to daughtersStella Doreen, 15, andHattie Margaret, 11, and sonsLiam Aaron, 16,Finn Davey, 10, andBeau Dean, 6, on their reality seriesTrue Tori.

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As questions regarding their relationship status continue, Spelling stepped out in June wearing twooutfits with cryptic messaging, including a white sweatshirt with “What the f— is going on?” written on the back and a shirt with the message “Boys Lie.”

“She’s not ready to break it yet,” a source close to Spelling told PEOPLE. “She knows once she makes an announcement public there is no going back.” The insider also called Spelling’s recent fashion choices a “stunt.”

source: people.com